The other day, just to test whether she could actually say the word "yes," I asked her if she wanted some chocolate chip cookies. T told me that wasn't fair. But I was genuinely concerned that her mouth couldn't form the word.
I've tried the 1-2-3 Magic shit, I've tried timeouts, I've tried taking things away. Doesn't matter... she does not want to do whatever it is you ask/tell (tried both) her to do. I seriously think that she could be on fire and I could tell her to douse herself with water to put out the flames and she'd say, "No, I don't want to."
I'm about at the end of my rope. Any suggestions, other than me being committed? (Which sounds entirely too appealing at this point.) Help meeeeeee....